QUICK TIP: The Unplugged Ceremony

Helping Guests Be Present at the Ceremony

In a world where we photograph our lunch and post videos of our pets, it’s no surprise that phones tend to sneak their way into wedding ceremonies. But for couples who want their guests fully present—not just snapping pics—it’s totally fair (and increasingly popular) to have an “unplugged” ceremony.

If that’s the couple’s wish, the officiant is in charge of sharing this info.

Make a clear, kind announcement right before the processional music begins. Something like:

“The couple invites you to be fully present for this moment. We kindly ask that you turn off your phones and put away your cameras so that you can join them—heart and soul—as they exchange their vows.”

A warm tone and a little smile go a long way here. You’re not scolding—you’re setting the scene for something meaningful.

Want to take it up a notch? Introduce the professional photographer and videographer. Let guests know the couple has hired people to capture every angle and every tear, so there's no need to block the aisle with an iPad.

“You’ll see [Photographer Name] and [Videographer Name] moving around today—don’t worry, they’ve got it covered!”

Signs at the entrance help reinforce the message visually, and couples might also want to chat with any especially phone-loving family members in advance (we all know that one uncle who livestreams everything).

Now, if the couple is cool with guests snapping a few photos, just shift your message.

You can say:

“Please keep your phones on silent, and if you’d like to take photos, kindly remain in your seat and be mindful of our professional photographer.”

The ultimate goal? A ceremony where guests are focused, connected, and soaking in every word, every laugh, every happy tear. Whether it’s phone-free or just phone-considerate, your cue helps set the tone.

So speak up, smile, and unplug the room—at least for a few magical minutes.