LEARN ABOUT WEDDING OFFICIATING
IN A WAY THAT WORKS FOR YOU!
Self Taught Prep Guide
This option is for you because you’re a self-starter!
Now you’ve been asked to officiate a wedding and you’re psyched to dive right in! With a timeline to stick to, it's best to cut through all the internet clutter and get exactly what you need in one easy-to-follow prep guide
You’ll receive a PDF Prep Booklet featuring:
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Outline of a Basic & Enhanced Ceremony
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Ceremony Writing Tips
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Love Story Questionnaire
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Ceremony Script Template
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Wedding Day Tips
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Wedding Day Checklist
1-on-1 Officiant Coaching
A blend of do-it-yourself materials with some personal guidance.
Even the most committed self-starters could use a little help. By booking a zoom session with one of our Officiant Coaches you'll be able to get any questions answered after you've reviewed the entire Prep Guide.​
In this option:
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Officiant Pre Guide PDF
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40 min live zoom with one of our professional officiant coaches
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Ask questions
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Get feedback on your script
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Share details about your couple and get love story writing ideas
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Discuss possible rituals or unity ceremonies that could work
After the call, the coach will:
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Send a recap/feedback email
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Follow-up before your wedding to make sure you’re good to go!
Wedding Officiant Boot Camp
Do you thrive in a group or classroom setting? This option is for you!
In this live workshop, you'll benefit from the input and camaraderie of your fellow officiants-to-be. Hosted by both professional wedding officiant coaches, get all your questions answered the moment they pop up all while having a ton of fun in the process.
In the LIVE 90-minute Zoom Workshop you’ll experience
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Access to TWO professional wedding officiant coaches
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The benefit of small class size: 6 students or less
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Potential for breakout groups for even more focused attention
During class we’ll cover:
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The outline of a wedding ceremony
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Tour all the materials in your prep guide
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Writing the love story
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Potential issues and how to troubleshoot them
PLUS — The next 3 months of workshops is on us!
Join us again before the wedding day to practice your script with the group or get new questions answered!
After your workshop, you’ll receive
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The zoom recording for your reference
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An opportunity to have our coaches review your written script and provide email feedback
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A check-in email the week before your wedding to make sure you’re all set to officiate
Which Program Officiant Program is Right For Me?
Review all your options with this side-by-side comparison.
Still not sure or have more questions? Reach out anytime at officiantcoaches@gmail.com
FAQ's
Who can legally perform a marriage in the state of Connecticut?
In Connecticut, marriages can be performed by Clergy Members, Judges, Justices of the Peace, or individuals ordained by recognized organizations.
Can I switch between learning options if I change my mind?
YES! It’s so important to us that you learn in a way that will be most efficient and beneficial to you. Contact us officiantcoaches@gmail.com to discuss your options.
Is this suitable for first time officiants?
YES! We designed our workshop and coaching materials to help the first-time officiant succeed. For those who have officiated before, there’s always something new to learn.
What technology or resources do I need for the live online classes?
A personal computer or tablet with a strong internet connection is all that’s required. Our materials are provided via PDF and our live 1-on-1 sessions or group workshops are conducted on Zoom.
Can I schedule a private coaching call if I need more help?
Of course! We want you to feel fully prepared. Email us anytime so we can decide how to assist you best.
What if I have more questions about the learning options, how can I contact you?
EMAIL us at officiantcoaches@gmail.com
What is the age requirement for officiating a wedding?
In the US, you must be at least 18 years of age to officiate a wedding except in Minnesota where the age requirement is 21 or above.
What types of learning options do you offer?
We offer three different ways for you to deliver an amazing ceremony. Self-Taught Prep-Guide, 1-on-1 Coaching Sessions or a Live Group Workshop.
Can I perform the ceremony even if I don’t want to sign the license?
You can have the honor of performing a symbolic ceremony without the legal responsibility. In this instance, the couple should arrange a simple marriage license signing with a qualified officiant before the ceremony. Reach out to us for more on this option. We are happy to help!
Do you need witnesses to get married in Connecticut?
Connecticut does not require any witnesses to a marriage. However, other US States do, so be sure to check the laws where the marriage will take place.
What is the role of a Wedding Officiant? Are there different types of Officiants?
A wedding officiant creates and leads the ceremony, ensuring it is personal and legally valid. Officiants can be either religious (such as Clergy, Pastors, or Ministers) or secular (such as appointed Justices of the Peace, or ordained individuals through a non-religious organization).
How do I get ordained to officiate a wedding? How long does it take?
You can get ordained online through a recognized organization, often in just a few minutes. We recommend American Marriage Ministries.
Do I need proof of my ordination to sign the marriage license?
In Connecticut, you are currently not required to register with the state, but you may want to obtain credentials in case you are asked by local authorities to provide proof. Other states do require you to register as an ordained minister. Check your local laws before agreeing to officiate a wedding.
What is the age requirement for officiating a wedding?
In the US, you must be at least 18 years of age to officiate a wedding except in Minnesota where the age requirement is 21 or above.
Will I be able to use the info and coaching from CAN’T WAIT 2 OFFICIATE in other states besides Connecticut?Â
Absolutely! Our coaching sessions focus on creating a ceremony, writing a couples love story and conducting the ceremony on the wedding day; all elements that are universal throughout the country and around the world. However, we strongly urge you to check with your state’s local laws before proceeding.